Play Policing

Introduction

Does your dog ever interrupt playtime with other dogs, barking or hovering around them? This behavior, known as "play policing" can disrupt fun and create tension. This article explores play policing, dispels common misconceptions, and offers steps to address it and promote harmonious play sessions.

Common Misconceptions

  • My dog is just being friendly: While play policing might stem from excitement, it can also be a sign of anxiety or dominance.
  • It's harmless: Play policing can disrupt playtime, lead to frustration, and even escalate to fights.
  • They'll grow out of it: Left unchecked, play policing can become a persistent behavior.

Steps to Address

Teaching Phase 

  1. Identify Triggers: Observe your dog's interactions and identify situations that trigger play policing. This could be rough play, certain dogs, or specific environments.
  2. Teach Relaxation Cues: Train your dog calming behaviors like "down" or "settle." Use treats and praise to reward them for successfully performing these cues.
  3. Introduce Redirection Cues: Teach your dog a cue like "leave it" or "come" to redirect their attention away from play policing. Use a toy or treats to lure them away and reward them for following the cue.

Reinforcing Phase

  1. Practice Relaxation Cues: Practice "down" or "settle" cues in various locations and throughout the day. Gradually increase distractions while your dog performs the cues, rewarding success.
  2. Reward Alternative Behaviors: During playtime with another dog, reward your dog for calm interactions and following redirection cues instead of play policing. This reinforces the desired behavior.

Proofing Phase 

  1. Supervised Play Dates: Arrange play dates with calm, well-socialized dogs in controlled environments. Use a leash or tether to separate the dogs if play becomes too rough or your dog starts to play police.
  2. Practice with Triggers: Gradually introduce play scenarios with identified triggers (rough play, specific dogs) while supervising closely. Intervene and redirect your dog before play policing starts, rewarding them for calm behavior.

Maintenance Phase

  1. Continued Practice: Continue practicing relaxation cues and redirection throughout your dog's life. Short, daily practice sessions are sufficient.
  2. Management During Play: Always supervise playtime, especially with unfamiliar dogs. Separate them if play gets too rough or your dog shows signs of play policing.

Pet Parent Coaching Tips

  • Set Up Play Dates: Arrange play dates with calm, well-socialized dogs. This allows your dog to have positive experiences with appropriate play behavior.
  • Practice Relaxation Techniques: Teach your dog relaxation techniques like "down" or "settle." This can help them calm down during playtime if they become overstimulated.
  • Seek Professional Help: If your dog struggles with play policing or shows signs of anxiety, consider consulting a certified dog trainer or behaviorist.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Should I punish my dog for play policing? 
    • Punishment is unlikely to address the underlying cause. Focus on positive reinforcement for calm behavior.
  • What if my dog gets frustrated during playtime? 
    • Separate the dogs and let them calm down before reintroducing them in a controlled environment.
  • How long will it take to see results? 
    • Consistency is key. With consistent management and positive reinforcement training, you can see improvements within a few weeks to months.