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Lean

(~ 8 min) Teach your dog to gently press into you for calmness, connection, and focus—on cue.

Overview

Lean is a simple, soothing behavior where your dog gently presses their shoulder/side to your leg or hip on cue. It’s not an obedience position; it’s an emotional regulation tool that encourages grounding, connection, and focus—especially helpful for shy, anxious, or overexcited dogs.

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What “Lean” Helps With (Benefits & When to Use)

  • Calm in motion: Insert short leans during walks to defuse building arousal.

  • Public composure: Use in stores, vet lobbies, or outdoor seating to anchor focus.

  • Better greetings: Replace jumping with a brief, calm lean before “say hi.”

  • Bonding & trust: Gentle pressure can be reassuring and co-regulating.

  • Reset button: Pair with a breath and “Watch” to transition back to work.

Safety note: Lean should be dog-initiated with gentle pressure. If you notice avoidance, discomfort, or pain when touching, stop and consult your veterinarian.

Teach It: Step-by-Step (Phases)

Teaching Phase (quiet space)

  1. Set up: Stand or kneel with your side facing your dog.

  2. Invite contact: Lure your dog’s shoulder/side toward your leg (treat at your seam).

  3. Mark & pay: The instant you feel soft contact, say “Yes!” and reward.

  4. Short reps: 3–5 second leans, 5–8 reps; end while it’s easy and calm.

Reinforcing Phase

  1. Add the cue: Say “Lean” a half-second before contact; then lure if needed.

  2. Grow duration: 2s → 4s → 6–10s, paying only relaxed pressure and soft body.

  3. Vary positions: Standing, seated, and squatting; left and right side.

Proofing Phase

  1. Mild distractions: Practice with a person walking by, quiet outdoor area, or light noise.

  2. Functional pairings: Lean → Watch → release, or Lean → deep breath → Let’s go.

  3. Generalize: Short reps in new places (parking lot edge, storefront, patio).

Maintenance Phase

  1. Use as a break tool: Insert during lessons, pack walks, or busy moments.

  2. Refresh weekly: A few easy reps keep the behavior soft and reliable.

Practice Plan & Milestones

  • Week 1: 1–2 sessions/day at home; 3–5s relaxed leans on both sides.

  • Week 2: Add cue consistently; reach 6–10s duration; introduce mild outdoor context.

  • Week 3+: Use as reset on walks and before greetings; pair with Watch or Place.

Ready checks

  • Offers gentle contact within 2–3s of cue.

  • Holds 6–10s without fidgeting.

  • Recovers quickly if a distraction passes (soft body resumes).

Real-Life Use Cases

  • Walk reset: Stop, cue Lean, slow breath, reward, then “Let’s go.”

  • Greeting protocol: Lean → release → sit → “say hi” (no jumping).

  • Public settle: Lean at your chair edge before moving to a short Place.

  • Confidence moment: Lean near mild triggers at a safe distance, then disengage.

Troubleshooting & Common Mistakes

  • Dog backs away: Lower criteria—reward any gentle contact; switch to quieter space.

  • Leaning with tension: Slow down; reward only soft muscles/loose jaw/steady breathing.

  • Dog pops up/jumps: Pause 10–15s, reset energy with a brief Watch or Sit, try again.

  • Only works with food in hand: Fade the lure—cue → brief pause → then reward from pocket.

Pet Parent Coaching Tips (Do/Don’t)

Do Why it helps
Keep reps short and calm. Prevents overarousal; builds reliability.
Pay relaxed body language only. Reinforces the state you want to see again.
Pair with a breath & Watch. Creates a tidy reset ritual.
Practice both sides & positions. Generalization = real-world success.
Don’t What to do instead
Don’t push your dog into you. Let them choose contact; gently invite.
Don’t train in chaos first. Start quiet, then add small distractions.
Don’t chase long duration early. Build 2s → 4s → 6–10s gradually.
Don’t reward frantic energy. Pause, reset, then reward only calm.

Common Questions & Answers

My dog backs away when I try to teach Lean—what now?
Start in a quiet spot. Reward any soft contact (even a brush). Use higher-value treats, keep sessions under 2 minutes, and end on a win.

Can I use Lean during a walk?
Yes—great as a mid-walk reset. Stop, cue Lean for 3–6s, breathe, reward, then continue.

What if my dog jumps instead of leaning?
Reset energy first (short Sit or Watch), then cue Lean. Reward only when paws stay down and contact is soft.

Should my dog sit or stand for Lean?
Either works. Choose whatever keeps the body loose and breathing steady.

Is Lean okay for puppies?
Absolutely—keep reps extra short and upbeat; stop if the pup shows avoidance.

Glossary

  • Lean: A calm, dog-initiated, gentle body press to your leg/hip on cue.

  • Watch: Eye contact cue to build focus before/after Lean.

  • Place: Go to a defined spot and relax—pairs well after Lean.

  • Overarousal: High excitement that reduces clarity and self-control.

Lean is a small behavior with outsized impact—an easy, portable tool for calm, connection, and focus. Teach it in quiet spaces, reward only relaxed pressure, then weave it into walks, greetings, and public outings. With a few soft seconds at your side, your dog learns that you’re their steady place—anywhere.